Every relationship has different dynamics in the roles played between the two. There is a place that you can find yourself that is not ideal.
After getting to know a guy you're interested in, you are mind blown with how well you jive. You are always on the phone or hanging out. He gives all his time and attention the same as you do.
Then, he hits you with the "I don't know if I really want a girlfriend, right now." Or a real heart thump moment when he makes comment about another girl as interested.
The moment passes, you continue on as was until you give your situation an exam. The commitment with the label 🏷 are missing in a relationship that is favored and fulfilling in many ways.
You both are committed to the dynamic you have formed. Even if that rides a line in between boy friend and boyfriend. The question arises on your contentment in your position while your chemistry makes for difficulties in wanting and hoping for more.
You have given it much thought, weighing out every aspect you can think of.
The time has come.
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Alison Mitcham